"Pure Genius! Not only has our relationship deepened, these simple questions led to weeks (and weeks) of astonishingly great sex."
Couples who have the deepest intimacy and hottest sex (even if it is their 1st, 237th or 1000th time) share this one "secret". Do you?
As one of the world's best known relationship experts I get a lot of emails (up to 1000 a day). Here are some of the common questions or concerns. I'm pretty sure you have some of the same thoughts.
* I'm in an intimate relationship but how can I REALLY KNOW if I am sexually pleasing him/her.
* How will I know if my future spouse and I are sexually compatible if we save sex for the honeymoon?
* We've been married for a couple of decades and I'm not really sexually satisfied anymore. I feel we're in a rut and I'd like to spice things up but not sure how to do that.
HERE IS THE ANSWER
The hallmark of any great relationship is excellent communication. And if you want a life-time of sizzling sex then you HAVE TO TALK ABOUT INTIMATE MATTERS. There is no other way. Period.
You can certainly come up with 20-50 questions on your own. But some of those questions would probably be pretty awkward asking your sweetheart. However, if you told your darling that you got this list of 500 Intimate Questions written by a relationship expert who has been
on Oprah and more than 500 other TV and radio shows and that you thought they would be fun to go through - then magically it seems rather normal to be asking and answering these types of questions.
The beautiful thing about these questions is that they are perfect for couples whether they are both virgins or have been married for decades. In my professional opinion 95% of couples have not asked 80% of these questions.
In survey after survey you will find that those who have the most satisfying sex lives are committed couples who are great communicators when it comes to sex and intimacy.
REAL QUESTIONS FROM REAL PEOPLE
I write several popular email newsletters and have more than 150,000 subscribers. I asked my readers to share what they believed would be the most important intimate questions they thought should be asked. These could be questions they would love to ask their partner (but might be too timid or nervous about doing so).
Or questions they wished they had asked before they got married. Or questions that they think would build on their intimacy and take their sex life to the next level.
I took those questions and combined them with my own from my 20+ years of counseling 1000s of couples and helping men and women to realize the most blissful relationship possible. I believe I have come up with the most comprehensive and useful list of intimate questions on the planet.
THE ORDER MATTERS
Would you ask someone you just met what 3 parts of their body they would want to be licked? Only if you were an idiot! If you want to build real intimacy you do it in a systematic way.
There are questions that build trust and create an emotional and romantic foundation that should be first laid before you eventually get to the hot and the sultry questions.
I have put the questions into 5 different sections that build upon each other so that you can go only as deep as both of you feel comfortable, reserving the later questions for the appropriate time. For example, couples who want to save sex for the
honeymoon would be wise to begin their questions during their courtship and perhaps save the most intimate and explicit of questions for after they have become physically intimate.
There are certain questions, given their deeply personal nature, that should only be asked by couples who are truly committed to each other.
READ, TEXT OR EMAIL
When you order your 500 Intimate Questions not only will you be able to immediately download and read them to each other but you can take the questions and send them as text messages or emails to one another.
Talk about a great way to build up anticipation and heat while you are apart! Also, sometimes asking these types of highly sexual questions can be less intimidating to some if done electronically.
My recommendation is that you limit yourself to maybe 10 or 20 questions at a time (and maybe even less). Trust me, when you begin sharing your answers, minds will go racing, blood will be pumping and both of you will be eager to put into action what you've been talking about. For couples who are waiting to make love down the road -- many of these questions will fan the flames of passion so use with caution.
WHY THEY ARE SO POWERFUL
Intimate questions are the ultimate turn on for women. Its like a romance novel where she and her beloved are the main characters. Nothing can stoke her fire more than sharing deep, intimate thoughts and ideas with the man she wants to spend eternity with. As I was testing out some of the questions with my wife, it was she who suggested we take a little "intermission" and boy was she worked up!
Guys might not always like sharing their "feelings" but in the context of talking about sex most men will share on a deep and personal level that women absolutely crave.
Most men truly want to know how to give their women the most powerful, erotic, earth-shaking lovemaking experience. And after going through the questions they will know exactly how to give
her explosive orgasms. By answering these questions she'll reveal the touches, the places, the scents and words that will drive her over the edge, again and again.
The questions are powerful aphrodisiacs for both men and women.
HOW TO GET THE 500 INTIMATE QUESTIONS
I've made it so you don't have to wait another minute to get this powerful material. It is published as an instantly downloadable and viewable ebook. Its in pdf format so you can read it on any computer (PC or MAC) or electronic device (like an ipad, ebook reader or phone).
It is NOT available in any bookstore. You can only order via this website.
The cost of this relationship enhancement tool is only $87. Much less than the cost of counseling, a night at a hotel or my relationship workshops.
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These are just TWO romantic ideas you can start using right away–inside you'll discover 99 MORE WAYS to express the love for your partner in creative and unique ways.
You'll also learn…
A unique "twist" to buying flowers (idea #3)
A creative way to cheer your partner up at work (idea #10)
7 'seldom used' words that really touch the heart (idea #14)
And many many more…
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Imagine the look on your lover's face when you hand them a coupon that says, "Redeem this coupon for: One lovemaking session in front of a roaring fire."
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Bonus 3: How To Give Your Partner Great Massages ($25 Value)
Think about how much you love a hug or a good snuggle from your partner… That warm bond you feel when you both connect.
That's why massage is so enriching. It says "I love you" on a deep and meaningful level.
But learning how to make massages feel great is tough! You don't want to hurt or injure your loved one when you give them a massage!
Luckily, this guide walks you through all the steps necessary to give them a better massage they'll remember for months to come. Maybe you'll even surprise them with your skill!
Most of us know the "rub, tap and stroke" massage moves but what are the other 10? On pages 13 and 14 you'll learn all 13 moves to give your partner variety and spice to their massage
How to massage each major body part properly, step-by-step (including arms, back, legs, shoulders, buttocks, belly and even head)… give your lover a more pleasurable experience with your newfound knowledge (page 15 - 19)
Two types of lubricants and lotions you should never use on your partner and which ones work best… give your partner the best experience possible (page 23 - 24)
The one fragrance that helps create an even more relaxed mood…(page 26)
P. S. You have a 100% satisfaction guarantee - If you're not happy with the book for any reason, return it within 60 days and we'll simply refund your purchase. So you have absolutely nothing to lose by trying out the questions. Go ahead and join the over 10,000 who have already greatly benefited from these questions.
I am loving 500 Intimate Questions. I have purchased all your other books and this one has been the most powerful in my relationship. For the past month we've made the ritual of putting the kids to bed and then sitting in front of the fireplace to read through 10 of the questions. We usually take about 30 minutes to discuss and more times than not, it has resulted in passionate lovemaking right in the living room.
- Brian W.
My husband and I had been making love about every three months. To be honest, I don't think we were that much in love anymore after 37 years of marriage, raising 4 kids, etc. I know I'm not as attractive as I was when we were first married but some resentment on my part also crept in. The questions were a god-send. We've been going through them for 3 weeks now and we've made love 8 times -- without the blue pill even! The best part for me is the emotional intimacy that has returned (although I'm not complaining about the very, very good sex).
- Eleanor G.
I got the questions because I wasn't ready to have sex with my boyfriend. We went through the first 100 questions and I realized it would have been a huge mistake. We see sex/making love so differently! Your book saved me a lot of heartache I'm sure.
- Sari V.
Although we have been married for 17 years somehow we never asked most of those questions. And the answers I got were often quite different than what I was anticipating. Very good stuff.
- Jon B.
All these years I thought my wife was very reserved sexually. Now I found out she has desires for our lovemaking to be a little "wilder". I would have never known if it weren't for these questions.
- Peter C.
OMG! That's all I can say. I just bought your book and after 7 questions she pounced on me on the couch, undid my pants and.... well, I'm still in awe. It was AWESOME!!!
- Chad M.
I love how all the questions weren't just about "sex" but also about dreams, desires, romance and love. That is what really turns me on. I was a bit more nervous about asking/answering some of the hard-core sex questions but in the end it was very worthwhile.
Helpful hint: drink wine while asking the questions if one of you is more reserved.